Men!!!

Hi readers, it’s been a while on my blog, I attribute it to writing blocks and preparation for school’s resumption

Well I’m back in school although school hasn’t resumed yet.

The topic for today is borne out of the events going on around me for quite a while. Why are men of nowadays now easily drawn into the lairs of women who begin to dictate and rule their world with gusto.

A friend of mine met a girl, ‘fell in love’ with her and he’s presently planning to get married to her early next year. I thought this was a phase in his life cause earlier this year he was dating another girl and was planning on opening a shop for her before the relationship disintegrated.

This new girlfriend has so much meddled into his life that he isn’t in speaking terms with most of his friends just because she demanded it.  I don’t believe in hiding stuffs from your partner but I believe there are some things you ought to keep to yourself like confidential discussions between you and your friends.

Another lady elsewhere came at her boyfriend telling the poor man she had been dating for five years telling him she was pregnant for another man. I believe that was so unfair to a man who has been your pillar for years. I’d rather she broke up with him before shagging another guy.

This is not to say men shouldn’t make your partners your best friends or you trusting her but don’t cut your friends out on her directive, I’m not saying you shouldn’t spoil and pamper her, but take time to know her moods, there are always telltale signs when a lady is about to cheat.

Attention to details is the key in any relationship and we hurt one another by neglecting some pertinent details that relates to our partners.

Here’s a wake-up call to ladies, let your man have his friends since he isn’t cutting your friends back. Men even if she don jazz u, make una give yourself brain and keep your friends business out of your relationship. Men pay attention, if she’s drifting away call her and talk to her immediately don’t always think it’s a phase that will pass. Ladies just as there are other guys looking to gain your attention, know that there are other ladies: rich, sexy and more beautiful than you who want your baby’s attention yet he is still sticking it out with you.